Our son recently described to me the difference between what he perceived as his friends acting confident and acting cocky.  He said that when you feel good about your ability and are comfortable with others being good at it too, then you are confident.  When you can only feel good about your abilities when others do not, then you are bullying and acting cocky.  It made me think about the concept of scarcity and what our egos evaluate as being and having "enough."

I've had enough of the side effects that come from our egos thinking there isn't enough.  That we're not enough.